A Special Thanks to These Kind Police Officers
— by Sherry Lynn Hillard
This past week was one of the hardest we’ve had in a while.
My teenage son, John, who has severe autism, had a major meltdown—one that escalated into a frightening episode of rage. It wasn’t just shouting or crying. It was overwhelming, emotional, and dangerous. I had no choice but to call for help.
Six police officers showed up at our home.
Now, I know there’s been a lot of negative talk about law enforcement lately. And I get it—there are bad stories out there. But I want to share something different. Something good. Something that brought me to tears.
When the officers arrived, they didn’t treat my son like a threat. They didn’t rush in shouting commands or try to take control by force. Instead, they paused. They asked questions. They listened.
They admitted they didn’t know much about autism—but they wanted to understand. They wanted to help—not just “handle the situation,” but actually help. They asked me what would calm John down, what to avoid, and how they could keep everyone safe without making things worse.
That kind of humility? That kind of care? It’s rare.
You see, the meltdown wasn’t over anything most people would think of as “important.” But to John, it meant everything: he wanted to dress like Joe from Blue’s Clues—his favorite character—and we couldn’t find the right shirt.
That one missing shirt triggered a tidal wave of frustration and disappointment that John couldn’t express in words. And when you’re autistic, those emotions don’t come out quietly.
The officers stayed until things settled. Then they left.
Or so I thought.
Less than an hour later, three of them came back. They had gone out and bought a plain blue shirt—and with help from our neighbor Jenn and her fabric markers, they sat in my kitchen, trying to recreate Joe’s striped shirt for John.
Let me say that again: three uniformed officers, crouched over a kitchen table, carefully drawing stripes on a shirt for a teenager they didn’t know.
No cameras. No fanfare. No one told them to do it.
They just cared.
And no, the shirt didn’t come out perfect. The lines weren’t even. The colors were a little off. But John didn’t mind—and neither did I.
Because in that moment, these officers didn’t just wear badges. They wore hearts.
I’ll never forget what they did. Not because it was flashy or heroic in the traditional sense—but because it was human. They treated my son with respect, dignity, and compassion.
To those officers: thank you. Thank you for your patience, your kindness, and your willingness to go above and beyond. Thank you for seeing my son—not as a case to be dealt with—but as a person to be understood.
You are the kind of heroes the world needs more of.